Worthless Emotions... :( :(

Another post....reasonably emotive...But contains bottomless factual sense.....


Few days back I received a forwarded mail which brought couple of tears in my eyes [As am emotional, it happens usually]


The mail was very sensible towards life. Where a man bought a new Ferrari, parked it at his home and everyone in his family was very happy about it, especially his 10 years old daughter. Next Sunday morning when he was washing his car, he noticed his daughter was doing something on the bonnet. He went there and saw she was scratching on it with a sharp rock. In a single moment man became so heated and slapped her very hardly 2-3 times. She started crying and went inside the home. Next day she was suffering from fever and required to be hospitalized. While taking her to hospital, he just noticed scratches made by her on the bonnet. And what she was trying to do was to write "I LOVE YOU DAD"...His head was spinning and heart was paining. But he didn't know why he became so angry that time!! Don't know what much is worthy.

Few days back one of my closest friends came at Bangalore for some official purpose and stayed with me. Days with him were quite good. I have an earphone which came as free with my laptop, in actual costs Rs 850. That is my favourite one and I just love the harmony comes out of it and the 'BASS' it produces. It gives me a different feeling whenever I use that one. Or in simple words I just LOVE that. One fine morning he asked me weather he can use it with his cell and I happily replied - yes you can. He took it to his office. When he returned from the office, he asked me he need to tell me something but I have to make sure first that I will not be angry OR will not ask anything to him. I assured him the same and he told that he just lost rubber cover [which fits outs in the ears] for one of the speaker somewhere. A short and sudden anger came up in my mind but next second I thought why I am getting so angry on this small thing. It won't cost me more than 5 or 10 Rs OR any how not more then my friendship with him. A smile came up at my face and I said not a problem man I have more sphere once.

A guy sitting in the cafe with one of his close female friend, Chatting, gossiping and kidding on different things. Eating tasty things to keep stomach and Tung silent. The girl bought some chips and was not ready to share that. Guy asked 2-3 times but she suggested to go and buy another one for own self. An idea came in the mind; guy took her phone and asked for ransom as chips to return the phone back. As she loves her phone too much, she will easily share chips now. INSTEAD the expectations, she said to give the phone back to her. Twice the time guy said no phone until unless chips are there for me. And the third time he noticed some different face expressions at her face and felt anger is coming. Before any explosion comes he returned the phone quickly. And after returning the phone he was thinking, if he had kept the phone for two more seconds definitely something was going to happen here. Question came in mind was what was worthy? And yes definitely he will not pick her phone again!! :( At least till the time he remembers those face expressions and anger in those eyes.

All three examples say the only thing and that is worthiness of emotions. People doing the same everyday in different ways with different people and never realize but the sufferer remember it always. Especially if sufferer is emotional, You just spoiled your relation, You are gone. In simple words 'IT HURTS'.

The post gives a simple message, just feel it. Things are not that worthy as RELATIONS, PEOPLE and EMOTIONS, Reason is simple you can buy things again. 

JUST FEEL THE ESSENCE AND SOUL OF THE POST..............TAKE CARE

Dil to bachha hai ji --- Happy Holi

Well its Sunday today But don't know what’s exceptional is today I woke up at 9 AM (Which is very odd) and unaccompanied at the room. Just lying at the bed, having a closer look at the wretched situation of the room and a rapid thought which ignited the force, made faster the body is Lets make the room spotless today. I took the broom and after putting a great effort it seems pretty good. I could see lots of died cockroaches finally taking their place to the dustbin, May god bless their soul. Still I sense something is missing ;)...So finally I took mop and wiped the whole flat and yeah....this is what hard work results, its better now. It is time to take bath.

Well Well Well its Sunday today  and I can take as much time as I want while bathing so lets take shower today with all fun of shampoos and pears :D And if I have done this much then what’s wrong with doing POOJA as well? It took me 20 minutes to give a try to make the God happy. After this superb schedule which came after so much of time period its time to take some rest now (I am fatal tired).

Again a sudden thought which fills the body with energy is that I have not deposited our electricity bill yet :( last date was yesterday and they may cut your light any time. So getup lets go and deposit the bill first. Well today the air is fresh and I can feel a new energy in me and looking at the wardrobe what to wear and I can see damm new jeans untouched. How can I do this with the jeans, it is untouched??...Lets give it a opening :) And yeah we are geared up now. Take your wallet; Keep your phone and o yes do not forget to take your new iPod as way is long and your have to walk. And harmony starts.

Finally paid my Vodafone bill as well as bill for electricity, God knows what does gonna come to pass with the light now. An incoming call at my phone, One of my college friend is calling, asked me lets meet at CCD in 10 minutes, All friends are there only and we will have a gossip gathering. CCD is the place where we generally meet. Hmmm...So it gonna go a good day today :)

With a musical walk reaching to CCD with a busy thinking brain, reached CCD got 3 seconds to have a look at my friends. All faces coloured with different shades, so many hands reaching towards my face and head, filled with different coloured gulaal, Before I understand the whole situation a strong voice penetrating my earphones & ears enters in my brain "HOLI HAiiiii" and just after that voice so many hands didn't took so much of time to rub and fill my face, hair, neck, back, chest and specially nose & ears with colour. Few seconds and its done. Now so many smiling faces hugging me, wishing me Happy Holi......Yeah, now I perfectly know what happened just few seconds back. Standing in front of them, Staring at my new jeans and thinking about one clean face is now coloured and added to their group....Hahaha...switching off the iPod, taking care of wallet and mobile. WHAT A DAY!!!!

Well I am already coloured and there is no harm to take some revenge and enjoy the festival of colours. Now we were 13 friends there, going here and there to other friends, seniors and colleagues. Here in the Karnataka Where they do not celebrate much of this festival, All over the streets people were just staring us like we are victims of some just happened disaster. People were telling their children to see us and take an example out of us that how bad things happen :)

The last thought which came in my mind was, I was never ready for such a surprise and if they might had asked me before colouring me, so may be I might not had given the permission. Because I think we are no more to enjoy and we don't take these festivals very seriously, thinks these are waste of time and money. And we are much older now; we should not be in these stupid things.

Though all these things all the youth have in the mind but those few moments will let you learn how to enjoy the life, how to make it colourful. Life is not to live just silently, just make some laugh, some noise and learn to live the moments. And that's what I am feeling it doesn't matter how older we are, how much responsibilities we have, how busy we are, how happy we are, we always have some funned desires in the heart, which we don't express due to the pressure of life.....But Whatever..."DIL TO BACHHA HAI JI" ....Accept it and live the life :)

Cheers and Happy Holi !!!!

Tommorrow again i have to play Holi with my office friends...Sleeping with the same thought!! :)

Thinking about you (After Marriage Edition) :D :D

Here I am, thinking about you,
How come you fooled me, finding the clue.

I asked would you be a part of my life

That time I didn’t know you are a pickpocket and sharp knife

I know I am not a prince charm,

But you were never princes too.

Didn’t thought it would be a mess,

But I really lied, I have to confess.

I loved you too much that you know,

You liked my account too that I know.

Things you want, will give you there,

But could you please let my things scatter here and there?

My heart says it beats because of you, but my mind says it would stop too because of you.

My breath says am alive due to you, But my nose says it can’t bare your smell.

I feel so good when you are not here,

But can’t tell you this, I do not have dare.

You accepted my proposal even I had fear in my eyes,

And now I am afraid of all your spies.

I will keep my fingers crossed,

Until unless I will make you lost.

God wants you to be with me,  

He says I have to face results of my sins.

Keep distance I have fear of flue,

Demon would be many betters then you.

Could you please do me a last favor?

Leave me alone, I need a different flavor.

Am waiting for your answer to start a new life,

I will give you all money as bribe.

Here I am, thinking about you,

How come you fooled me, finding the clue!!!

The Agony of life :(

We all can see the disparity between India and other English countries. The difference in ethnicity, work, maturity, development, growth and intensification.

Few time back i was thinking why we are lacking and why we are so lethargic(Indians are indolent). If you evaluate the the man power, no one could ever dare to even stand against us. The only difference is lack of desperation, dedication, concentration and energy. We are misplacing it!! And why?? No one bothers about it :)

I am working in a multinational company, where i need to communicate with US guys and need to work accordingly. And somehow a little obsession always shoots my intellect that creates a bigger difference in the picture of performance and that is encouragement, appreciation and quality to adore someone's work. A man went to US for few days and his work delivery got doubled, now he was ready to accept any work any time with a real smile. What made him that brand, vigorous and full of life.

The thing which i noticed and that man noticed was the appreciation which he received for his each and every activity. While working if you get few good words that esteems your work, admire your efforts and make you think that you are really doing good work and keep the good work up. Those few words will make you do more work with more devotion and desperation. Because the more you work, people will adore you more and that's what a human being is "GREEDY". It will fill you with energy. Just two positive encouraging  appreciative words!!!

One of my female friend working at a massive giant of IT sector, She works for at least 8 hours a day (Here i am talking about hour she works, not how many hour she stays in office) and At the end of the day her manager says hey you didn't do this one and you have to complete this one also, take this work also. Hey Man!! we are human, not machine!! How she will accumulate more liveliness to execute more work while she knows the criticism would be on its way by the superior. And here comes the INDIA!!! Outcome is straight, she is doing work because company is paying for that, not because she wish to do. If her manager will appreciate her work even a single time a day, i know the variation would be huge or more then that!

It takes only a moment to appreciate or adore someone's work but it really makes a significant difference in the quality and quantity of the work.

SO GUYS START ADORING THE PEOPLE AND THEIR WORK!!! EVERYONE JUST LOVE IT :).....And you could feel the disparity :)

Thinking about you.... Valentines day Spl!!!

Here I am, thinking about you,
Dreaming some dream to come true.

Would you be a part of my life,

Am asking would you be my wife?

I know I am not a prince charm,

But I will always keep you warm.

Don’t think it will be a mess,

I will just fill it by happiness.

I love you too much that you know,

You like me too that I know.

All the thing you want, will give you there,

The only thing I want is little bit care.

My heart says it beats because of you,

My breathe says am alive due to you.

I feel so weak when you are not here,

I always miss you because I really do care.

Accept my proposal I’ve fear in my eyes,

Deny will bring some tear with my cries.

I will keep my fingers crossed,

Until unless you change your thoughts.

God wants you to be with me,

I am proposing you by sitting on knee.

Could you convert this ‘I’ and ‘you’ in ‘WE’,

Angel is standing here in front of me.

Am waiting for your answer to start a new life,

It would be most lovable to have you as my wife.

Here I am, thinking about you,

Dreaming some dream to come true!!!!

Where is the true Love???

It is 11 PM and i just reached at home. I have something in my mind, which i am thinking and noticing from long time. Just read the below written things and try to understand, i hope anyone can analyse.

Suppose a person is in love and talking to his/her partner on phone and suddenly a call comes at cell, which would be at waiting state that time but that guy/girl ignores the call because s/he thinks that his/her parter will not feel bad as they are in flow of chats!!!

Just check the opposite situation one is talking on phone to his/her home and sees a call waiting on the cell of his/her partner. What would be the immediate action? Thar guy/girl will ask to home that one call is on wait and will be calling you just after few minutes. And that few minutes never ends!!!

Just check another situation..A boy talking to his mom and mom who loves her son so much, asking again and again the same thing about food that please eat this and this, do not forget and all. Finally that guy got irritated and started shouting on the mom, that i alone can take care of myself and after shouting cuts the call. And his mood is down now. At the same time he calls his girlfriend and started chats very politely and calmly, now in the last of the call the girlfriend says the same thing about food what his mom was saying But now scenario is different he listens everything and say the same good things for her to have good food. Now his mood is up and he thinks yeah in this world at least 1 girl cares for me.



Now everyone could feel the difference!! I am just wondering which one is the true love?? A mom who has taken care of the child for at least 20 years or a girl to whom he has spent some nice hours!! And what if going ahead that girl dumps the guy?? we always think about the heart of our partner, but what about our parents. Our parents loves us more then we can think. Just feel the meaning of the words written above, i hope i could make some difference.

Can't ignore the happenings by which everyone is surrounded by, Just feel the love in a right direction. Sleeping with the same thought.

The season of "LOVE" ;-)

February is starting tomorrow. The season of love, to spread the fragrance of romance, to spread the energy, to remove the distances and to wake up the slept love after marriage. It may bring you the remembrance of old days or it may just make your days to be remembered always. Even after reading above few lines you might got some picture or a series of pictures, if you were ever fallen in love(Doesn't matter one sided or both sided, love is love). The month got a special place for couples,lovers and love seekers :)



Don't know how many hearts are going to be hurt and how many going to be merged. Love has its own place for opposite sex(even for same sex also,now a days). Love is blind.

This amazing,unforgettable,fragrance filled,enjoyable and most adorable feeling is the topic which could have an endless discussion. Some people call it attraction, some calls it LOVE and some even don't believe on it!!! If some one says i can't live without you, so what does this meant?? I could bring stars for you, what does this meant?? This meant that someone is there who cares for you and could have endless pain if you are not there, Even though time is the greatest healer!

Those who are in love can't see the world, it makes them mad and this is the feeling they want to enjoy. It brings desperation, inspiration and desire to live the life.

Love is not a patented word used to define the couples, it is a shore-less sea. Someone loves his dad,grandma or profession or anything in this world or out of this world. It has no limit, no reasons, no parameters and no explanations. I love my all readers, Even if i don't know them :)

The most important thing is if you love some one, just tell them. It doesn't matter that person is your dad or your sister or your friend. It don't need to be expressed always but sometimes it do.

Some people say why we need a single day or week to express love? Agree, but this is not the time to express love or to feel it. It is the time you make you remember, to give you some extra energy for the feeling which you are leaving behind in the race of life.

Wishing you all a very happy season of LOVE. May you all get your loved ones :)